Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from two different continents.

When you’re in a relationship separated by distance, especially with military deployment, everything gets more complicated. Time zones, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel stressful.

We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just kept falling through.

Then we found out we could say “I do” over Zoom — for real.

At first, we thought it was some kind of loophole. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah legally support fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re even accepted in other countries.

We decided to go for it.

Here’s how it worked for us:

• We verified our identities and filled out a quick form.
• We booked our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
• We invited our closest friends and family to join via Zoom.
• And when the day came, we logged on, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.

I said “I do” from my living room. My partner said it from their military base.

It was unforgettable. It was simple. And it was ours.

The officiant walked us through the process. The ceremony was quick, but powerful. And we received our certified marriage certificate the same day — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.

Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle immigration documents, and every agency has approved it — no issues at all.

If you’re trying to make your relationship official from afar, don’t wait. Online marriage is real, and it’s a meaningful way to start your future secret wedding — even if you’re not in the same place.

We’re proof that love doesn’t need borders — and that what matters most is the commitment.